BRIDE'S TO-DO LIST

 

During the next several months, you're going to be busy making decisions and plans for the wedding of your dreams.

 

This "To-Do List" is designed to help you focus on the tasks you will need to do and how soon you need to start making those plans. 

 

Although the bride is usually responsible for most of the wedding plans, several others, like the maid of honor, help in this task.  In todays society many grooms are taking a more active role in the planning and decisions. 

 

Our Groom's To Do List will soon be available with the traditional responsibilities of the groom.  This list may be especially helpful to him if he is unfamiliar with wedding customs or what is traditionally expected of the groom. 


We wish you all the best. 

 



Twelve to Eighteen Months Before The Wedding

  • Decide with your fiancé the type of wedding you want.
  • Select a wedding date.
  • Visit a clergy person AND reserve the church.
  • Reserve a reception site and caterer.  Ask about any decorating guidelines the site may have.
  • Determine the number of guests.
  • Choose your wedding attendants.
  • Select and reserve your wedding professionals. (Photographer, Florist, Videographer, Musicians, etc.)
  • Begin looking for your wedding gown.
  • Plan the color scheme for your wedding.

Nine Months Before The Wedding

  • Visit with your ceremony officiant.  (There may be pre-marriage classes you and your fiancé need to attend.)
  • Select and order your dress and accessories, such as jewelry, veil and shoes.
  • Select and order attendants dresses and accessories.
  • Begin your guest list, ask both families for their lists.
  • Register with the bridal gift registries at your favorite stores.
  • Visit your local travel agent for your information honeymoon destinations.
  • Order Save the Date cards if you want to let friends and family what your wedding date will be.

Six Months Before The Wedding

  • Meet with the wedding professionals you have hired to go over details and confirm dates and times.
  • Plan your menu
  • Order your wedding invitations, thank-you cards, ceremony programs, etc.
  • Make honeymoon reservations.
  • Shop for and order wedding rings.
  • Assist Mothers in shopping for wedding attire.  Remind “Mom” it could take 10-12 weeks for her dress if she orders it.
  • Finalize your guest list..
  • Shop for honeymoon clothes
  • Reserve a block of hotel rooms for out of town guests.
  • Work with your DJ on music selection for the reception.

Three Months Before The Wedding

  • Check state requirements for blood testing.
  • Make wedding day transportation arrangements.
  • Have your first fitting.
  • See that attendants have arranged fittings.
  • Get birth certificates if you are leaving the country for your honeymoon.
  • Order wedding cake.
  • Select wedding attire for the groom, groomsmen and Fathers.
  • Purchase your wedding accessories: guest book, unity candles, toasting glasses, garters, cake tops, etc.

Six to Eight Weeks Before The Wedding

  • Begin bridal gown and bridesmaids dress fittings
  • Address and mail your invitations.
  • Select gifts for attendants and groom.
  • Pick up your wedding rings from the jeweler.
  • Submit your wedding announcement to newspapers.
  • Make appointments for yourself, bridesmaids and mothers at beauty salon for day of wedding.  Check and see if the stylist will come to you at home or the church.
  • Write thank-you notes for shower gifts.
  • Decide on floral arrangements, bouquets and corsages.
  • Plan the rehearsal dinner.
  • Buy the Groom’s Gift.

Two to Three Weeks Before The Wedding

  • Go for your final dress fitting.  Don't forget to bring your shoes.
  • Go with your fiancé to get your marriage license.
  • Consult with your hair stylist about your wedding day hairstyle.
  • Give request lists to the photographer, videographer, musicians, etc.
  • Finalize rehearsal dinner plans.
  • Finalize wedding day transportation arrangements.
  • Decide on seating arrangements for reception.
  • Write out place cards.
  • Finalize and double check all arrangements.
  • Decorate party favors for reception.

One Week Before The Wedding

  • Supply caterer with final count of dinner guests.
  • Confirm rehearsal dinner's dates, place and time with your bridesmaids.
  • Begin packing for your honeymoon.
  • Purchase traveler's checks for honeymoon.
  • Inform your attendants of any special responsibilities.

The Day Before The Wedding

·         Finish packing for honeymoon.

·         Attend rehearsal and dinner and go home early and get plenty of rest.

·         Get ready to start a wonderful life!